荣格的这段话，让我感触很多，尤其想到亲子关系中困惑的父母们。

For two personalities to meet is like mixing two different chemical substances: if there is any combination at all, both are transformed. In any effective psychological treatment the doctor is bound to influence the patient; but this influence can only take place if the patient has a reciprocal influence on the doctor. You can exert no influence if you are not susceptible to influence. It is futile for the doctor to shield himself from the influence of the patient and to surround himself with a smoke-screen of fatherly and professional authority.  CW16，Par 163

两人相遇，像两种物质相遇，当化学反应发生，两人必然都被改变。化学反应，必然带来双方的改变。荣格使用化学反应，让表达有具像化的意象，增加我们的感受。

我特别喜欢，使用肢体相连的意象，感受我们和人之间的关系，我们送出什么？是滋养的，还是毒害的物质？送出怨恨、轻视、否定、不安？还是爱、赞许、肯定、安心？

这次和女儿挪威之行，她说，小时在我身边，成年累月的感受到我的焦虑，我的焦虑，像化学反应一样，影响她。回顾自己的成长，相信神依然可以医治，拯救。我们也唯有依靠主，灵命突破成长，活出喜乐，平安，成为家人、朋友的祝福。